The device manager supervises: hello, backoff, and the crash-loop cap (M18.1)

The manager is now a harness service on the well-known .device_manager
endpoint. Every driver spawns supervised; drivers with an assignment must
hello (device-manager-protocol, versioned) within a deadline enforced by
a timer sweep. Exit reasons drive the restart decision: clean exits stay
down, faults restart with 300/600/1200ms backoff, and three fast deaths
mark a driver failed instead of respawning forever. usb-xhci-bus is the
first conforming driver; the crash-test fixture claims a device, hellos,
and faults on purpose — each respawn re-proving claim release on death
through the manager's own path. maximum_tasks grows 16 -> 32: the
initial-ramdisk sweep (15 binaries at once) was intermittently
overflowing the static pool.

system/abi.zig

@@ -176,6 +176,7 @@ pub const ServiceId = enum(u32) {
     vfs = 1,
     input = 2,
     ps2_bus = 3, // the 8042 owner; child device drivers attach here for raw bytes
+    device_manager = 4, // the tree, the matcher, the supervisor (docs/device-manager.md)
     _,
 };