Publish exit events to subscribers; the VFS releases dead clients' handles (M17.3)

process_subscribe adds an endpoint to a bounded, ref-counted subscriber
table; every death posts the same badge encoding a supervisor's exit
notification uses, equally late, so subscribers observe a fully-released
child. A dying subscriber's own subscriptions are removed first — it never
hears about itself. The VFS is the first subscriber: open handles now
record their owner and are swept when the owner dies, because a service
must never depend on clients cleaning up after themselves
(docs/process-lifecycle.md). Proven by the vfs-client-death scenario.

system/abi.zig

@@ -54,6 +54,7 @@ pub const SystemCall = enum(u64) {
     process_kill = 25, // process_kill(id) -> 0/-errno: end a process this process spawned
     ipc_send = 26, // ipc_send(handle, message_ptr, message_len) -> 0/-errno: post a payload to an endpoint's async queue without blocking
     process_exit_reason = 27, // process_exit_reason(id) -> ExitReason/-errno: how a dead child ended (its supervisor only)
+    process_subscribe = 28, // process_subscribe(endpoint) -> 0/-errno: subscribe to published exit events — every death posts a notification
     _,
 };